Going to Bed with Caroline Vreeland: Bonsoir!

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Going to Bed with Caroline Vreeland is a new column on CR about everything between the bedsheets and more. Have a question? Comment? Flirty note? Email CV at online[at]crfashionbook.com.

I guess if we’re going to get in bed together I should tell you a bit about myself.

I think about sex. A lot.

Is that too forward? I have a tendency to be a little bit too honest. Let’s start at the beginning. If this were a first date and you asked me to tell you about myself, I would say I’m provocative. I’m candid. And I’m pretty fucking fearless.

If this were a first date and you asked me to tell you a bit about myself, I would say I am loud. I fill a room. I would also tell you that I can’t get through a single day without thinking about sex. But I doubt I’m alone in that. In fact, I think we are all constantly thinking about sex. It’s just that not a lot of people are talking about it—and I want to. To me, sex isn’t just the act; it’s everything before, everything during, and everything after. Sex is about vulnerability and honesty. But there’s also a lot about sex that I don’t know. That fact doesn’t scare me, it turns me on.

The truth is, when CR asked me to do a column with them about sex I found myself cataloging all the moments throughout my day that I spend thinking about sex. About sexiness. Sexuality. I’ve been thinking about intimacy and butt plugs and group sex and monogamy. We think about sex all day everyday and somehow it’s still a bit taboo to really speak openly about it.

In the coming weeks I want to hear about your sex; lets start the intercourse. Now don’t get upset! I meant the discourse, darling, of course. And—as sex is about giving and receiving—I hope working on this column helps me to better understand all the different facets of my own sexuality, as well.

This series isn’t me claiming to be an expert on sex or sexuality. I just want to explore sex with you all. I’m just like you, only with a bigger mouth. So use me as your mouthpiece! I just want to know more, and I’m not afraid to ask. So, if this were a first date, I’d ask you a little bit about yourself. I’d pour us a glass of wine and order some pasta and ask you to get into bed with me.

Let’s get freaky.

XX, CV

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